An excellent story Ashley. It can take many years to truly value ourselves, and lots of 'failures' or what seem like failures. But that sense of value is crucial to our well-being. Without it, we are like an anchor lost at sea, not knowing which way to turn. Having a deep sense of self value is not just empowering, it can literally save us from terrible situations we shouldn't be in or that aren't good for us, destroying our sense of self-worth, etc. To get to the point of appreciating our unique strengths and talents, is a journey. Everyone has unique strengths but we need to realise and understand that, before we can bring those strengths out in ourselves, and we only do that when we "allow" ourselves to value who we are and value ourselves. Thanks for sharing this story.