I think it's natural to dwell on what-if's. I do it a lot but it doesn't help me much. You went throught a very serious life threatening accident that left collosal physical and mental damage. It would be strange if you never thought about what-if's. You will move on when you are healed and ready. Same for Gabby's family. I recall the news of her death and story of her life. Such a horrible heartbreaking thing to happen to a talented young woman, wanting to experience life, travel etc. She had her own blog and audiences on YouTube. I don't know much about the case other than the news but seems there was jealousy in the relationship by her boyfriend who killed her. Gabby was popular and could make videos, blog etc. I don't know her parent's motive but I am sure the pain and hurt will always be there regardless of compensation etc. Their daughter died an unnecessary death at the hands of a jealous disturbed lover. How they will be able to reconcile this is something out of our control. They have set up a foundation to help survives of DV and that is wonderful. They recognise others like Gabby can learn the signs and get help in time.