I think stories that lecture and dictate are just using things to "hook in" readers. They go by a set of criteria, such as "If you do x, this will happen: stop doing it" etc. I don't bother reading dictating posts, as no one has a right to dictate, especially people who don't know me, but even if they did I still wouldn't like it. They use those "hooks" to sound authoritarian and hook in the reader. I avoid those kinds of tones. The stories are usually boring with endless mantra and being told what to do. Not interested! 😅