Thanks Barbara, it genuinely can be difficult keeping up with comments and human error might mean we miss some. Added to glitches on medium, like there are currently (I didn't see your response earlier). My responses still seem to be lagging behind about 7 hours. Don't think they have fully caught up. There can be many reasons, but if someome was purposely not responding or even clapping, I might think twice about reading their stories. I think a lot of big writers don't bother. Thanks for reading and replying.