Thanks John for your kind appreciative words. We learn as we go along. I have fallen into trap of confronting and calling out such people, fighting etc but I've only ended up worse than them and made myself ill. There are some people that you should never engage with at all, for your own health and peace. I've discovered silence is best, it brings peace and you don't risk confrontations, trauma, etc. The silent power to be yourself, quietly confident and secure beats arguing, because they are very unlikely to change and you could end up worse than them. Keep a very safe sane distance. Indeed, even pray for them, that one day they might start to understand what they did wrong. Let God deal with them, and they might start to love themselves and stop hating others. Too often haters don't like themselves and project it onto others. They need to know that love exists.