This is absolutely a very important and greatly insightful conversation. The connections you make, in my experience of men and women, are true. Men are very quick to label women who they can't dominate as sluts and even if they don't use those very words, in other ways they still label the woman negatively and infer negativity. It's also about male dominance and control, and controlling women' sexuality is part of it. The arguments you propose in this essay make sense and underlie the broader spectrum of "isms" in society. Unless people address these issues, they persist. Thank you for sharing this valuable article, that I believe is much need to address all inequality.