This is really interesting question and one I unconsciously avoid commenting on. But having left other comments, then closed out of the story, this questioned niggled at me, like I "forgot" something. I have had many people like to me. Some in very wounding, hurtful ways. One quite recently where someone I believed was a "friend" really was jealous of me, having moved to a new home. She considered me snobbish and treated me strangely. I couldn't understand her ways and felt she strongly resented me. She joked once about being jealous but I don't think it was a joke. She repeatedly lied about calling over last year, majomg arrangements and not bothering to call to cancel. Very hurtful behaviour. She would ignore calls and lie if she answered, once I phone her late at night and she claimed she was at a "funeral". Such rubbish yet she sounded so real, although not genuine. God choose to let me see her pretence when I became very ill with flu a while ago. Being on my own, I range for company and sent her message about being sick. Thinking she would have empathy. What she did was kept her phone off an entire week, not giving a damn, almost like to punish me. Since then I told her what I thought and blocked this "friend" entirely. Very toxic.