I've certainly experienced male domination and was a victim of DV also. However, the problem isn't that women experience it a lot, but that men can also experience it and are shut out because it's widely understood women experience it more. But I don't think it can be denied women experience a lot of it. The problem is lack of male voices and advocates from male victims of DV, rather than denying women experience male dominance. It's particularly sad in your case, as your ex-wife used parental alienation to get back at you, so she used your children as weapons, which is ultimately extremely damaging to the children. There should be more recognition of male victims of DV, because it does exist for sure. I hope the court case will go in your favor and you can again see your children. It's almost criminal that this has happened.