Yes, I agree Jasmine, some of them thrive on power and enjoy undermining writers work. I felt she was controlling my story and had little genuine understanding or concern about the significance it had for me, or concern about the harsh realities at that time. She made a few very unconstructive comments that made me realise she was just out to undermine me, and I couldn't work with her. I am open to constructive helpful criticism and suggestions, but I felt she was being deliberately unhelpful and negative. She even said herself how open I was initially to her notes, but when it continued the second time I submitted and some were just plain negative, I knew it wasn't me that was at fault.